Break the Habit: Strategies for Success in Forming and Maintaining New Behaviors

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Break the Habit: Strategies for Success in Forming and Maintaining New Behaviors


Are you trying to change your habits but finding it difficult to stick to your goals? If so, you’re not alone. It’s estimated that only 8% of people who set New Year’s resolutions are successful in achieving them. So, why is changing your habits so hard? There are a number of possible explanations, including lack of motivation, not having a clear plan, or trying to change too many things at once. Fortunately, there are a number of things you can do to make it easier to change your habits. In this article, we’ll explore some of the strategies that you can use to increase your chances of success.


Habits are a special kind of learned behavior – they’re so automatic that we often don’t even realize we’re doing them. And because they’re so ingrained, it can be hard to change them, even when we really want to. But the good news is that there are strategies we can use to make changing our habits easier. In this article, we’ll explore some of the reasons why changing your habits is so hard and some of the strategies you can use to make it easier.


Before we dive into why changing your habits is so hard, let’s look at the science behind habit formation. Basically, we form habits as a way to make our lives easier. Through repetition, we create automatic behavior patterns that require very little thought or effort on our part. The way our brains work is that we establish habits by going through a cycle of three steps: the cue, the routine, and the reward. The cue is the trigger that causes us to perform the routine, and the reward is the positive feedback we receive from performing the routine, which reinforces the habit in our minds. This means, in order to effectively change our habits, we need to be able to identify the cues that are causing us to act in a certain way and figure out strategies for dealing with them. We also need to be able to recognize our rewards for performing certain routines, so we can find new rewards for forming new habits.


Now that we understand the science behind habit formation, let’s take a look at some of the reasons why it’s so hard to change your habits. First, habits are often emotionally charged. We tend to associate certain behaviors with certain emotions, making it difficult to break the habit. Second, we often lack the motivation to change our habits, even when we know it would be good for us. We’re creatures of habit, and it can be incredibly difficult to change our behavior patterns even when we know it would be for the best. Third, our habits are often closely linked to our identities. This means that, when we’re trying to change a habit, we’re also trying to change our self-image and the way we see ourselves. This can be incredibly difficult, especially if we’ve held onto certain behaviors or sense of self for a long time. Finally, habits can be difficult to break because of the way the brain is wired. Our brains are wired to preserve the status quo and resist change. This can make it incredibly difficult to break out of our comfort zone and try something new.


Despite the difficulty of changing your habits, it is possible. The key is to establish new habits that are more beneficial and rewarding than the old ones. To do this, you need to start small and focus on forming one new habit at a time. Start by setting a goal for yourself. Figure out what it is you want to accomplish and then break it down into small, manageable steps. Each time you complete a step, reward yourself for your efforts, which will help to reinforce the desired behavior. You also need to create triggers for your new habits. Make sure you have the necessary tools (e.g. gym clothes, materials for a new hobby, etc.) on hand so that you’re reminded to do them. Finally, be patient with yourself and don’t be discouraged if you have setbacks. It takes time and consistency to form new habits.


The process of habit change doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with the right strategies. If you find yourself facing an obstacle while trying to break an old habit or form a new one, don’t give up. Building new habits takes time and effort, but it is achievable with the right strategies. There are a few strategies that can help you overcome obstacles to habit change. One is self-monitoring. Self-monitoring involves becoming aware of the cues that trigger your habits and the rewards you get from them. It also involves creating a plan of attack for overcoming obstacles. Another strategy that can help you is self-compassion. Being hard on yourself can actually make it harder to change your habits. Instead, focus on being gentle and understanding with yourself as you make changes in your life.

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